It’s not that easy to get around when you’re disabled physically. Maybe you’re in a wheelchair, or maybe you’re just temporarily on crutches. Whatever the case, you should bear in mind that there’s always a way to still have fun, especially on hookups when you’d least expect it. You don’t have to stop having those no strings flings that you really enjoy just because you’re in a wheelchair, and if anything, it can actually add another element to your hookups that you’d never expect. There are a lot of fun ways to actually make your disability a lot of fun, so you might as well stay comfortable in your own skin, and not worry about whether or not that wheelchair makes your life difficult in the bedroom.
There Are Some Fun Power-Play Dynamics to Explore
This isn’t for everyone, but there’s definitely something to be said about the power-play dynamics that you can mess around with when you’re on a no strings fling and also in a wheelchair. Considering you’re not going to be able to run laps around Saskatoon, there’s a good chance that you’re hookup is going to have to do a lot of the work for you, and there’s no reason why the two of you can’t play that up in a way that’s actually pretty damn sexy. There are a lot of simple BDSM scenes that can very easily be brought into the bedroom like this. If your partner is already into waiting on your hand and foot, there’s no reason why they can’t take it to the next level with BDSM. Of course, the two of you should always discuss any sort of Dom/sub relationship–no matter how temporary–at length before you dive right into it. This will make the two of you have a much more fulfilling hookup, and you’ll have a lot more fun being able to boss her around from your wheelchair, which, honestly, might as well be your throne for the evening. There are a lot of different ways you can work this kind of situation, but if you’re the Dom, it will probably be easier. Being able to order your sub around while they wait on you and generally pleasure you in whatever way you want the hookup to go will be enjoyable for both of you, and hopefully, you’ll find out that being in a wheelchair really isn’t the kind of thing that you need to think will hinder you sexually in the future.
Even If You’re Just on Crutches…
Maybe your disability is a temporary thing, and that’s fine. You can still work it in the bedroom and have a lot of fun while you’re doing it. If you’re on crutches while you’re having your hookups in Saskatoon, for example, you can still have a lot of fun in the bedroom. Limited mobility doesn’t mean that you have to be hindered in any real way; it’s just going to take some finagling in order to make it all work out in the end. One of the easiest ways to make this part of your no strings fling work is to simply let her do a lot of the work when it comes to penetrative sex. If you have a broken leg, obviously you’re not going to be the most mobile or have the easiest time when it comes to banging her into next week. There are several different positions you can try instead, and a lot of times, just having her on top is the simplest answer. She can ride you while you enjoy yourself underneath her, and maybe play with her breasts or otherwise touch her wherever she wants it. This can be done in bed, in a chair, or wherever the two of you are most comfortable.Oral sex is also something that you shouldn’t count out. She can either be giving it to you, or you can be giving it to her. There are many different positions the two of you can try out that aren’t going to involve you doing a lot of maneuvering, and that’s always important if you’re just having some mobility issues. Your disability–no matter how permanent or temporary–obviously has no bearing on how much fun you can have in the bedroom when you have options like these available. It’s definitely all what you end up making of it.
The Fun of Bondage
If you’re already a little immobile then bondage is probably something that has occurred to you in order to spice things up a bit. Having your partner string you up adds an eroticism to something that has probably become a mundane fact of life, and that’s what hookups are supposed to be–spice to your life that you really, sorely need. As with any form of bondage or consent play, there’s the fact that you need to chat about safe words beforehand. Once that is the out of the way, however, you can have some fun either being strung up, or if you’re at least somewhat mobile, you can string your partner up in interesting ways as well. There are other forms of bondage that involve chastity devices that they can actually wear that aren’t going to impede their mobility, but give you a greater deal of control when it comes to making sure they actually orgasm or not. There are several different kinds of bondage that can be brought into the bedroom, and especially on hookups, the two of you can go wild and discuss what you think would work best for both of you, your situation, and of course, whatever disability that you’re dealing with at the same time.
Sex Toys Always Work
At the end of the day, there’s honestly nothing better than a vibrator. It simply makes everything easier for everyone, and we’ve never really met a girl that wasn’t interested in being teased with one in at least one way. That’s why we highly suggest that you have at least one vibrator in your hookup arsenal. They’re especially useful if you’re one with limited mobility, because you can always ask your partner to pleasure herself while you watch. This kind of mutual masturbation can be an extremely erotic thing on a hookup, and you can masturbate yourself while she does the same with the vibrator…or with any other sex toy that she wants to use at the time. You can also incorporate dirty talk into the scene, or any other fantasy that the two of you want to act out at the time. The sky’s the limit with this one, and that’s why you should just let your imagination run wild and give you every opportunity to have fun in the bedroom.