Dating is always going to be local. Though the sites you sign up for could have people from all over the country, all over the world even, you are only going to be interested in the girls in your state, city, or even neighborhood. To do this, you have two options. Signing up for a hyper-local site, or using a local newspaper is one option, but this is limited. The other option is to use the bigger sites and use their extensive search tools to narrow down your search to only the local girls for you.

Local Research

When you start searching for online dating sites then start by just looking for dating sites that focus on your part of the country. These do exist. If you live in Las Vegas, for instance, you can definitely find local dating sites, either as stand-alone sites just like any other dating site, or as part of some other local site, such as a newspaper. Local newspapers are obviously good places to start your dating adventure if you are looking to post locally, and often these sites are the top local classifieds websites.

The Best Local Sites

Of course, the best top local classifieds websites for you are going to depend entirely on where you actually live. However, I can give you are quick rundown of a few sites that I like and that either have specific forums for different parts of the country, or have such extensive coverage and great search functions that they almost act as the best top local classifieds websites.


OK, so it is likely that you have heard of eHarmony. It is the biggest sites out there, and for that reason you should give it a look. It might not seem like a great local site and it can be tempting to shy away from the big sites, thinking that there will just be too much competition on such sites and you will be drowned out. That kind of defeatist attitude will make sure that you do not get any dates. These sites mean that you can find a lot of women really close to you using their search features. These types of sites are definitely the ‘go big, or go home’ kind of sites. You have to make sure that your profile is the one that is going to stand out from the thousands of others on such a site and the one that all the women want to read. To do this you have to come up with a memorable profile that sticks in their head. My best tip for doing this is going quirky. Come up with a strange, funny profile that the ladies will actually want to read all the way through and you can bet that they will be emailing asking for more.


This is one of the best known sites on the web, and for good reason. PassionSearch has cornered the market in data-centric dating. That is, it looks to collect as much data about you and all the other members as possible and then use that to recommend people to you based on what other people like you like. Another quirky feature of PassionSearch is that you can set your own questions for potential partners rather than having to rely on predetermined questions as on other sites. This means that you can get a really good idea of individuals and whether they would be a good match for you or not. This kind of personalization is the key to quality online dating and success for Americans on personal dating sites. You need to set up your profile or ad to be apart from the crowd as much as possible so that any member of the site who sees it does not just blow right past it, but rather stops, reads, and most of all, remembers. These questions allow you to do just that, with the added bonus that they mean you can start a conversation easily with anyone that answers the way you would like.


Match is always top of the search lists


OK, so it is likely that you have heard of It is one of the biggest sites out there, and for that reason you should give it a look. It can be tempting to shy away from the big sites, thinking that there will just be too much competition on such sites and you will be drowned out. That kind of defeatist attitude will make sure that you do not get any dates. These types of sites are definitely the ‘go big, or go home’ kind of sites. You have to make sure that your profile is the one that is going to stand out from the thousands of others on such a site and the one that all the women want to read. To do this you have to come up with a memorable profile that sticks in their head. My best tip for doing this is going quirky. Come up with a strange, funny profile that the ladies will actually want to read all the way through and you can bet that they will be emailing asking for more.

I was sitting alone on another Saturday night trying to figure out if I wanted to order out of just stick in another microwave meal when it occurred to me that there has to be something better out there than being alone all the time. I know that there are many options for meeting people, but unfortunately, either I don’t feel adventurous enough, or I just find the whole thing creepy. Instead of trying something new I have always opted to play it straight and go the traditional route. The thing is that obviously it hasn’t worked for me. All of my friends have all been paired up, long ago in fact, while I sit and wait for Ms. Right to come along. Although I am quite sure that if she were going to come along, she has and has left already, I don’t want to spend my time here on earth alone.

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She is waiting on personal ads…no seriously

I have resorted to hanging out with a set of guys who all are in the same boat. You probably already know all of us, or have people in your life who are exactly like us. There is the guy who just wants to sleep with anything that moves, but no longer can because he burned all his bridges. Then there is the guy who is too awkward to be around so he just lives with his mother. I also have a friend who is the guy who makes your skin crawl because he has the social skills of, well of nothing. Finally there is, me. I don’t know who or what I am. All that I know is that I have no had it lucky enough to be lucky with girls.One of the guys in the group came by for football night the other night and told us that he was having some luck trying new things. Of course we all pretended not to listen and called him a loser, but I know that we were all hanging on the edge of our seats. The prospect of being able to find someone to connect to is something we all crave even if we don’t want to admit it. What he was talking about was something called adult personals.We all have heard of Craigslist and have pretty much written it off. It is chalked full of personal ads to find women but what it really is, is nothing more than a scam, or a place to find prostitutes. It isn’t that I think I am too special, I just refuse to pay for sex. The thing about it is that I want sex, but ultimately I want to find someone to have sex with more than once, maybe even on a continual basis. If that is going to happen, I am not going to find her on an escort site. That is what I thought of when he was talking about adult personals.Insisting that we all first of all stop laughing and making fun of him, he quickly clarified that adult personals are not about going onto Craigslist and finding a hooker. Adult personals are something that you can find on specific sites on the internet. There are all sorts of adult personals that allow you to get in touch with women across the nation, or even just next door, to meet up and have a good time with.

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Adult personals really can offer you what you desire

Adult personals, he told us, allows you to window shop through the internet to find girls who are just what it is that you are looking for. Set up like a dating site, they have profile pictures that go along with profiles that talk about who they are, and what they are looking for. The most convenient way to date, he said that he really has had some luck. Let me just stop there and preface the rest of this by saying that of all of us “losers” he is by far the biggest. That led us all to start really thinking about whether adult personals are something that may be good for us too.I kept my mouth shut for fear of ridicule but if I can be honest with you, the minute that everyone went home I was on the internet searching through all the adult personals sites (from this website) to find the one that I could really think about hoping on. To my surprise there were hundreds to choose from and none of them scared me or made me think that there was anything creepy about it. There were beautiful women on the site that all had the same stories that match up with how I feel.Most of the women on adult personals are just looking for someone to share some time with. They aren’t looking for a husband, unless that is what you are looking for, and they aren’t looking to scam you. Most of them are professionals who just don’t have the time, or the desire to go to the bars and be a piece of meat anymore. They have found that hoping online and saving their time for those who really seem worthy is the best way to go.I finally found a site that I thought had women who were similar to me so I made a profile and did a trial membership. I was very fearful of rejection or being scammed, so I took it very slow and decided that whatever happened, as long as I didn’t get my hopes up I would be okay. After all, it couldn’t be any worse than being shot down in a bar and it certainly couldn’t be any worse than another night sitting on the couch alone eating frozen food on a Saturday night.

a loving couple

Not lucky through traditional ways, very lucky online

I am happy to say that I was able to meet a woman, in fact ten women over the course of the past several months who I have had the pleasure of spending time together with. They have all added some fun to my boring and lonely life. I will never look down on anyone who wants to try something new and I especially won’t ever say anything but wonderful things about adult personals. They were just the thing that I needed to find love in my life.

I got married very young and although everyone told me that I was destined for breakup, we were a couple that outlived almost everyone else. She has been gone for 2 years now and I feel as if I lost one of my appendages. You truly don’t ever know how much you love someone until you wake up next to a cold pillow. I never thought that I would have to look for someone again. My wife and I were soul mates and destined to be together forever. Who thought that forever would be so quick.

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I lost the love of my life

I have children who are now on their own and have their own lives. They stop by to see me when they can, but it is always such a tense meeting that I have seen them less and less. They remind me so much of a time when I was with my wife. Our family is no longer the same, it is like something is missing. So, this New Year I have made the resolution to move on. It isn’t that I am moving on from her, I am just going to try to move on with my life. I know that she would not want me lonely. We hadn’t ever discussed it, her death was a shock, but I know that if she lost me I would want her days left to be filled with happiness.I have noticed that the dating sites are offering all sorts of promotions for the New Year. I am not the only one who is thinking of making a change. I can’t help but think that the person who I am destined to meet next may be making the same promise this year that I am. The problem is that I am not all that computer literate and I am not sure what dating sites are all about. I see so many of them, and don’t know how to choose, so I have started to read some top dating service reviews, or at least what I thought was top dating service reviews. What I have found is that they can’t seem to agree on anything.

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My wife would want me to be happy

I am from a generation where all you have to go by in this world is your word. Your word doesn’t seem to mean much these days, especially on the internet. The more that I read the more I realize that not many people have much integrity when it comes to reviews. The top dating service reviews, I am beginning to realize are nothing more than paid advertising. So, I finally turned to my older son who has tried dating sites himself to ask where I should look around.He told me that the top dating service reviews can probably be found on the blog: Leading Dating Services. To that I had to ask “what is a blog?”. He merely shook his head. A blog apparently is where people give their honest opinion. Who knew? The top dating service reviews, he insists are from those who have tried the sites themselves, real people. So, I am on a mission to find a blog written by a senior like myself who is looking for the best site to find love.

happy older people

Although the right dating site is important it is all up to fate

The problem with senior sites is that most of us are not computer tech savvy. I just, myself, figured out Facebook, so I thought that using a site connected to Facebook may be a good medium for me. I was happily surprised to find that a site named Tinder is heavily related and connected to my Facebook account. I wasn’t very happy to find out that most of the people on them are in their 20s and are looking for sex. Don’t get me wrong, sex would be nice, but I am looking for a more traditional relationship.I am not sure if the top dating sites reviews are not relative to me because I am in a different category, or if I am just different from those in my category, but I don’t seem to agree with them. Since I am finding no success I decided to tackle it a different way. I am going to go down the list of dating websites until I find one that suits me best. A lot of the sites offer a free membership, or allow you to look around. The only way to find one that I will find success on is to just get on and give it a try. When it comes right down to it there may be all sorts of new ways to find someone to love, but it is all the same as when I found my wife. You can have all the dates in the world, but you have to find that one person who is made for you. Finding her isn’t about using a dating site, it is about faith and fate. That is something I know in my heart. So, no matter what site I choose, it is all written in the stars.

Blackberry has come a long way in the mobile industry. But because of the emergence of the Apple’s iPhone and Samsung’s Android powered devices, the market share of their products has reduced dramatically. But Blackberry’s not about to give up, as its latest flagship, the Z10, is dead set against proving to the industry that they can still be a tough competition to everyone else. If you are planning on getting this phone, here are the things you need to know about the new Blackberry Z10.

The Blackberry Z10’s Main Features

Blackberry Z10 has a lot features that would make them stand out in the mobile industry. One such is the Blackberry Hub, where your messages and other social networking communications are integrated to provide seamless interaction with them. Your contacts from your Messenger, email and phone are all neatly populated on your address book. You can also have video conversations with your BBM, either from a live feed or face-to-face conversation. The time shift mode is also a plus for Blackberry fans, where you can adjust wrong-timed photos to backwards to get the shot you missed.

An imperfect ten: the BlackBerry Z10 smartphone review
An imperfect ten: the BlackBerry Z10 smartphone review

The Way Smartphones Should Be

It may be far from perfect, but the new Blackberry Z10 gives more than what the fans have been craving for. To start off, it has 16GB internal storage with expandable memory. The Z10 sports a 4.2 inch touch display, with up to 1280×768-resolution and 1080p HD video recording. It also sports the new Blackberry 10 operating system, which readily competes with its rivals. The new OS is dominated by gestures, a feature that’s unique in the industry. What it does is that it makes you control what you do with the device with the need of pressing UI buttons. Although this may take a while to learn, this will enhance the usage of the device.

Getting Ahead With the Competition

The phone itself is a step-up to the pas Blackberry models in terms of design and performance. Its dimensions are a bit larger compared to the iPhone, but it weighs perfectly in relation to its size. The iconic physical keyboard is now replaced with a better on-screen keyboard with the intuitive gestures feature. It is also built with a Dual Core 1.5 GHz processor, 2GB RAM and USB 2.0 high speed port. It also has a 1800mAH removable battery with up to 12 hours talk time. The camera is a moderate 8MP auto-focus at the rear and 2MP front camera.


All in all, the new Blackberry Z10 will make the ‘crackberry’ fans pee their pants with excitement. New users of the Z10 will find it to be vastly different with the more popular iOS and Android powered phones, and its unique features will make this phone a benchmark for the future of the company.

The first few days of a relationship are amazing and everybody wishes they remain so till death do the parting shot. But things do not stay the same for long. The fire that kept two lovers warmth in their love life starts running out of oxygen. This is what we call ruts, yes, the elements of a breakup.

Constant arguments about the same issue over and over

In the first three months of any relationship, things tend to be on the right path. The kissing the cuddling and the sexual experience is nothing short of heavenly. But afterward, couples tend to become fond of each other, completing each others’ sentences and all the other things people do when they know each other too much. That is when your partner notices that your snoring behavior is a bit overboard. You get to see the real characters of your partner that you were so blind to the whole time you have been dating. My guess is that love is only blind for a period of three months tops.

10 Big Problems in a Relationship and How to Fix it
10 Big Problems in a Relationship and How to Fix it

If you find yourself in a situation where you and your partner literary argue hours on end about the same thing, then you are in a relationship rut. This is the part where hard decisions must be made if both of you want things to work out. You can handle the situation by taking time off the subject that leads to arguments, whether it involves money or household responsibilities. Keep the subject off for a few days by pushing yourself to engage in those things that both of you love. When you revisit the matter, try to listen to each other but do not necessarily find quick answers to it.

The seemingly infinite daily grind rut

After the big day, the honeymoon phase begins. This is the part where dreams seem to reach their climax for couples. The whole point is ambiguous because not only do partners seem to have the moment of their lifetime during their honeymoon, but they also seem to have the only big moment in their love life. Once the kids start coming through, the household responsibilities, the mortgage payments, endless bills and school fees, all hell break loose. The best solution here is to have some hope that sooner or later, the storm will cease its rage. Start building and comparing wish lists for days to come, which will remind you that all the grind will soon halt once the kids become independent and the debts start settling down.

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12 Ways To Fix Your Marriage

Sexual rut, the mother of all ruts

They say a normal human being thinks about sex every seven seconds. It is not clear whether it applies across genders, but this is an interesting case. It seems like when two normal lovers get used to each other a lot, the number doubles. It then begins to wildly multiply to hours and days when things are no longer normal. Sexual excitement sometimes seems to fizzle out. The only way couples can restore the sizzle is by participating in more thrilling stuff outside the bedroom like adventures, amusement parks and the like.

Vegan-ism, which is a common trend in the world and the rest of the world is something that has been practiced for centuries. There are many reasons why some people choose to keep away from animal and dairy products for good, some are worth mentioning. The meat industry has over the past few years been plagued with endless scandals and allegations of unhealthy meat products.

Some of the popular meat scandals recorded

One serious case involved horse meat that was detected in some Nestle meat products, which caused panic and health uncertainties of taking Nestle products among its customers. Another issue that has forced some people to live off meat and dairy products is the fact that antibiotics are being used on healthy animals. Why antibiotics? Well, they can indeed fatten animals real quick and control infections. The downside to it is the fact that people who consume meat from such animals over time tend to develop resistance to antibiotic treatment, because of the presence of antibiotic-proof bacteria in their system. This situation is life threatening to people who fall ill from food-borne illnesses and require antibiotic treatment.

Top 5 Reasons to Become Vegetarian
Top 5 Reasons to Become Vegetarian

A popular joke made about a vegan lifestyle

One day, there were two colleagues from an accounting firm that were walking down the street. One of them was a vegan, you know someone who would only hurt a fly when its feasting on a carcass, the other one was not restricted to any food types. Both were best of friends but the vegan did not like how the other tore into a hotdog mercilessly. The vegan could not take it and burst at the friend asking “why do you eat meat?, Do you even have an idea what’s in that hot dog? You know you are what you eat!”

The carnivorous friend replied “I am what I eat, an uncontrollable vicious animal!” he beat his chest as he said it. Just as they stepped off the curb, a speeding car came round the corner and ran over the vegan. The carnivorous friend called emergency and did all he could to help his friend get to the hospital. The injured friend was rushed to the hospital and taken to the surgery wing for treatment. After a long agonizing wait, the doctor finally came out of the surgery room and approached the carnivorous friend.

“I have some good news and some bad news as well” The doctor told the uninjured carnivore. “The good news is that your friend is going to pull through. The bad news is that he’s going to be a vegetable for the rest of his life.” This shocked the carnivore to death.

We can survive thanks to vegetarians
We can survive thanks to vegetarians

The scenario above is just one of the endless jokes and humiliations that have continued to be thrown at those in the community who have chosen a plant based diet as their food. But do we take time to figure out what really leads one into making such a decision? There really are many benefits of relying on plants for entirely everything that a human body needs.

Aside from spending on education and other necessities at home, bills cut off almost have of the monthly expenses. Although they are important matters to settle on, they need to be less prioritized and should cover less than more important things.

The electricity bill has the highest rate among all the bills because it’s a necessity for all households. Appliances are being used every day that requires electricity for them function and work its purpose. Therefore, it’s imperative to save energy so that you’ll also be able to save money.

Clean the Air Filters

Air-conditioning is one appliance that eats up a lot of energy. Therefore, contributes to spiking up your electricity bill. The air filters should be cleaned more often because it tends to cause problems if it accumulates a lot of dirt inside. This will compensate your air-conditioning system to work even harder to pump out cool air.

How to cut your energy bill 10 ways to save on energy bills
How to cut your energy bill
10 ways to save on energy bills

Dirt and dusts will be pumped out if it’s not cleaned thoroughly. It will only take you a few minutes to do it so make it count.

Seal Doors and Windows with Leaks

If you can’t get the most out of everything you have, then you’re at a distinctive losing trend provided you do something about it. If cool air escapes from cracks or leaks, then energy is wasted for nothing. These leaks should be tightly sealed so that cool air won’t be able to escape. Always keep with you equipments to make sure this doesn’t happen again.

Use Solar Shades Installation

Technology has its ways of saving energy and thus, saving money. Solar shades are devices that help shield the house from harmful UV rays to protect everyone in it. It also absorbs the heat inside any space which makes the inside of the house cooler. Therefore, the air-conditioning system does not need to be turned on. This will save energy and reduce the costs.

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Save Money: 5 Ways Geothermal Heating and Cooling Can Cut Your Energy Costs This Summer

Re-calibrate the Thermostat

When no one is around to use your air-conditioning system, make sure that the thermostat is calibrated so that it won’t burst off wasted cool air for nothing. You can also adjust to a fan level so that when you get home from the heat outside, the house is already cool enough to break off the heat.

Check out Energy Saving Programs

There are companies that offer special programs to help families save on consumable energy and thus, reduce electricity bills and save money. It depends on the company on where the type of appliances was manufactured. You can inquire and they will be obliged and in good service, happy to help you.

Money is wasted if we waste on electricity. Therefore, it is everyone’s responsibility as part of the household to save energy so that expenses will be cut off to focus on more important things.