It’s not that easy to get around when you’re disabled physically. Maybe you’re in a wheelchair, or maybe you’re just temporarily on crutches. Whatever the case, you should bear in mind that there’s always a way to still have fun, especially on hookups when you’d least expect it. You don’t have to stop having those no strings flings that you really enjoy just because you’re in a wheelchair, and if anything, it can actually add another element to your hookups that you’d never expect. There are a lot of fun ways to actually make your disability a lot of fun, so you might as well stay comfortable in your own skin, and not worry about whether or not that wheelchair makes your life difficult in the bedroom.
There Are Some Fun Power-Play Dynamics to Explore
You can still enjoy a power-play
This isn’t for everyone, but there’s definitely something to be said about the power-play dynamics that you can mess around with when you’re on a no strings fling and also in a wheelchair. Considering you’re not going to be able to run laps around Saskatoon, there’s a good chance that you’re hookup is going to have to do a lot of the work for you, and there’s no reason why the two of you can’t play that up in a way that’s actually pretty damn sexy. There are a lot of simple BDSM scenes that can very easily be brought into the bedroom like this. If your partner is already into waiting on your hand and foot, there’s no reason why they can’t take it to the next level with BDSM. Of course, the two of you should always discuss any sort of Dom/sub relationship--no matter how temporary--at length before you dive right into it. This will make the two of you have a much more fulfilling hookup, and you’ll have a lot more fun being able to boss her around from your wheelchair, which, honestly, might as well be your throne for the evening. There are a lot of different ways you can work this kind of situation, but if you’re the Dom, it will probably be easier. Being able to order your sub around while they wait on you and generally pleasure you in whatever way you want the hookup to go will be enjoyable for both of you, and hopefully, you’ll find out that being in a wheelchair really isn’t the kind of thing that you need to think will hinder you sexually in the future.
Even If You’re Just on Crutches...
Let her ride you if your leg is broken
Maybe your disability is a temporary thing, and that’s fine. You can still work it in the bedroom and have a lot of fun while you’re doing it. If you’re on crutches while you’re having your hookups in Saskatoon, for example, you can still have a lot of fun in the bedroom. Limited mobility doesn’t mean that you have to be hindered in any real way; it’s just going to take some finagling in order to make it all work out in the end. One of the easiest ways to make this part of your no strings fling work is to simply let her do a lot of the work when it comes to penetrative sex. If you have a broken leg, obviously you’re not going to be the most mobile or have the easiest time when it comes to banging her into next week. There are several different positions you can try instead, and a lot of times, just having her on top is the simplest answer. She can ride you while you enjoy yourself underneath her, and maybe play with her breasts or otherwise touch her wherever she wants it. This can be done in bed, in a chair, or wherever the two of you are most comfortable.Oral sex is also something that you shouldn’t count out. She can either be giving it to you, or you can be giving it to her. There are many different positions the two of you can try out that aren’t going to involve you doing a lot of maneuvering, and that’s always important if you’re just having some mobility issues. Your disability--no matter how permanent or temporary--obviously has no bearing on how much fun you can have in the bedroom when you have options like these available. It’s definitely all what you end up making of it.
The Fun of Bondage
Spice things up with some metal bondage
If you’re already a little immobile then bondage is probably something that has occurred to you in order to spice things up a bit. Having your partner string you up adds an eroticism to something that has probably become a mundane fact of life, and that’s what hookups are supposed to be--spice to your life that you really, sorely need. As with any form of bondage or consent play, there’s the fact that you need to chat about safe words beforehand. Once that is the out of the way, however, you can have some fun either being strung up, or if you’re at least somewhat mobile, you can string your partner up in interesting ways as well. There are other forms of bondage that involve chastity devices that they can actually wear that aren’t going to impede their mobility, but give you a greater deal of control when it comes to making sure they actually orgasm or not. There are several different kinds of bondage that can be brought into the bedroom, and especially on hookups, the two of you can go wild and discuss what you think would work best for both of you, your situation, and of course, whatever disability that you’re dealing with at the same time.
Sex Toys Always Work
At the end of the day, there’s honestly nothing better than a vibrator. It simply makes everything easier for everyone, and we’ve never really met a girl that wasn’t interested in being teased with one in at least one way. That’s why we highly suggest that you have at least one vibrator in your hookup arsenal. They’re especially useful if you’re one with limited mobility, because you can always ask your partner to pleasure herself while you watch. This kind of mutual masturbation can be an extremely erotic thing on a hookup, and you can masturbate yourself while she does the same with the vibrator...or with any other sex toy that she wants to use at the time. You can also incorporate dirty talk into the scene, or any other fantasy that the two of you want to act out at the time. The sky’s the limit with this one, and that’s why you should just let your imagination run wild and give you every opportunity to have fun in the bedroom.
All in all, your disability should never end up hindering you while you’re on a hookup. No one’s going to care so long as you’re out there to have fun, and we guarantee there are women out there really into guys just like you. There’s no need to feel self-conscious about it in anyway, and if you’re still good at having fun in the sack, then you’re going to end up a dozen times more popular than anyone without a disability!
I got married very young and although everyone told me that I was destined for breakup, we were a couple that outlived almost everyone else. She has been gone for 2 years now and I feel as if I lost one of my appendages. You truly don't ever know how much you love someone until you wake up next to a cold pillow. I never thought that I would have to look for someone again. My wife and I were soul mates and destined to be together forever. Who thought that forever would be so quick.
I lost the love of my life
I have children who are now on their own and have their own lives. They stop by to see me when they can, but it is always such a tense meeting that I have seen them less and less. They remind me so much of a time when I was with my wife. Our family is no longer the same, it is like something is missing. So, this New Year I have made the resolution to move on. It isn't that I am moving on from her, I am just going to try to move on with my life. I know that she would not want me lonely. We hadn't ever discussed it, her death was a shock, but I know that if she lost me I would want her days left to be filled with happiness.I have noticed that the dating sites are offering all sorts of promotions for the New Year. I am not the only one who is thinking of making a change. I can't help but think that the person who I am destined to meet next may be making the same promise this year that I am. The problem is that I am not all that computer literate and I am not sure what dating sites are all about. I see so many of them, and don't know how to choose, so I have started to read some top dating service reviews, or at least what I thought was top dating service reviews. What I have found is that they can't seem to agree on anything.
My wife would want me to be happy
I am from a generation where all you have to go by in this world is your word. Your word doesn't seem to mean much these days, especially on the internet. The more that I read the more I realize that not many people have much integrity when it comes to reviews. The top dating service reviews, I am beginning to realize are nothing more than paid advertising. So, I finally turned to my older son who has tried dating sites himself to ask where I should look around.He told me that the top dating service reviews can probably be found on the blog: Leading Dating Services. To that I had to ask "what is a blog?". He merely shook his head. A blog apparently is where people give their honest opinion. Who knew? The top dating service reviews, he insists are from those who have tried the sites themselves, real people. So, I am on a mission to find a blog written by a senior like myself who is looking for the best site to find love.
Although the right dating site is important it is all up to fate
The problem with senior sites is that most of us are not computer tech savvy. I just, myself, figured out Facebook, so I thought that using a site connected to Facebook may be a good medium for me. I was happily surprised to find that a site named Tinder is heavily related and connected to my Facebook account. I wasn't very happy to find out that most of the people on them are in their 20s and are looking for sex. Don't get me wrong, sex would be nice, but I am looking for a more traditional relationship.I am not sure if the top dating sites reviews are not relative to me because I am in a different category, or if I am just different from those in my category, but I don't seem to agree with them. Since I am finding no success I decided to tackle it a different way. I am going to go down the list of dating websites until I find one that suits me best. A lot of the sites offer a free membership, or allow you to look around. The only way to find one that I will find success on is to just get on and give it a try. When it comes right down to it there may be all sorts of new ways to find someone to love, but it is all the same as when I found my wife. You can have all the dates in the world, but you have to find that one person who is made for you. Finding her isn't about using a dating site, it is about faith and fate. That is something I know in my heart. So, no matter what site I choose, it is all written in the stars.
Blackberry has come a long way in the mobile industry. But because of the emergence of the Apple’s iPhone and Samsung’s Android powered devices, the market share of their products has reduced dramatically. But Blackberry’s not about to give up, as its latest flagship, the Z10, is dead set against proving to the industry that they can still be a tough competition to everyone else. If you are planning on getting this phone, here are the things you need to know about the new Blackberry Z10.
The Blackberry Z10’s Main Features
Blackberry Z10 has a lot features that would make them stand out in the mobile industry. One such is the Blackberry Hub, where your messages and other social networking communications are integrated to provide seamless interaction with them. Your contacts from your Messenger, email and phone are all neatly populated on your address book. You can also have video conversations with your BBM, either from a live feed or face-to-face conversation. The time shift mode is also a plus for Blackberry fans, where you can adjust wrong-timed photos to backwards to get the shot you missed.
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The Way Smartphones Should Be
It may be far from perfect, but the new Blackberry Z10 gives more than what the fans have been craving for. To start off, it has 16GB internal storage with expandable memory. The Z10 sports a 4.2 inch touch display, with up to 1280x768-resolution and 1080p HD video recording. It also sports the new Blackberry 10 operating system, which readily competes with its rivals. The new OS is dominated by gestures, a feature that’s unique in the industry. What it does is that it makes you control what you do with the device with the need of pressing UI buttons. Although this may take a while to learn, this will enhance the usage of the device.
Getting Ahead With the Competition
The phone itself is a step-up to the pas Blackberry models in terms of design and performance. Its dimensions are a bit larger compared to the iPhone, but it weighs perfectly in relation to its size. The iconic physical keyboard is now replaced with a better on-screen keyboard with the intuitive gestures feature. It is also built with a Dual Core 1.5 GHz processor, 2GB RAM and USB 2.0 high speed port. It also has a 1800mAH removable battery with up to 12 hours talk time. The camera is a moderate 8MP auto-focus at the rear and 2MP front camera.
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All in all, the new Blackberry Z10 will make the ‘crackberry’ fans pee their pants with excitement. New users of the Z10 will find it to be vastly different with the more popular iOS and Android powered phones, and its unique features will make this phone a benchmark for the future of the company.